"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IamtheAlphamale

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I always wanted to be good at approaching. I'm down for trying whatever. I would appretiate some feedback from people. I am not a newbie really but I am not a veteran in cold approaches. In a bit I am going to goto the gym and then later on I will hit the mall and get a few approaches. If you guys have good ideas for places or ideas for appraoching that would be really awesome.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Actually I haven't really done any approaches for a while. I was doing them before but then I had surgery on my knee and stopped because I could not walk for a while. But now I'm going to go hardcore. The problem I ran into before was that I would go after girls who were walking in the other direction a lot because I wanted to get my quota in. I think I will need to try harder.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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I have to be honest the main reason that I want to do this is to get good at random conversation.

On my way to the gym I was at the liquor store and I opened a group of three and the convo was alright... nothing special at all. Mainly we talked about what the girls were doing tonight.

When I went to the gym I started talking to this one girl who worked there about what she was doing tonight but then it got really busy for her and I left.

I also opened some girls at the mall later on except that it was just as the mall was closing. I did not realize that the mall was closing super early which is why it was such a pathetic approach. They worked at a store and they were closing it up and pretty busy.

I am pretty drunk so that is why this is so... hurried. Anyways I will do much better in the future.

None of these convo's will do much except the gym one may have made another girl a bit jelious.. I guess we will see.
 
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