"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IamtheAlphamale

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I always wanted to be good at approaching. I'm down for trying whatever. I would appretiate some feedback from people. I am not a newbie really but I am not a veteran in cold approaches. In a bit I am going to goto the gym and then later on I will hit the mall and get a few approaches. If you guys have good ideas for places or ideas for appraoching that would be really awesome.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Actually I haven't really done any approaches for a while. I was doing them before but then I had surgery on my knee and stopped because I could not walk for a while. But now I'm going to go hardcore. The problem I ran into before was that I would go after girls who were walking in the other direction a lot because I wanted to get my quota in. I think I will need to try harder.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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I have to be honest the main reason that I want to do this is to get good at random conversation.

On my way to the gym I was at the liquor store and I opened a group of three and the convo was alright... nothing special at all. Mainly we talked about what the girls were doing tonight.

When I went to the gym I started talking to this one girl who worked there about what she was doing tonight but then it got really busy for her and I left.

I also opened some girls at the mall later on except that it was just as the mall was closing. I did not realize that the mall was closing super early which is why it was such a pathetic approach. They worked at a store and they were closing it up and pretty busy.

I am pretty drunk so that is why this is so... hurried. Anyways I will do much better in the future.

None of these convo's will do much except the gym one may have made another girl a bit jelious.. I guess we will see.
 
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