"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would just like to say

sosilky

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I would just like to say that finding this forum has been an excellent learning experience. Any interactions I've had with people positive or negative has added to that learning experience. I hold no ill will towards anyone. I think its great that a free site filled with so much valuable information is accesible. Perhaps the price we pay are the posts we encounter that are discouraging. Stay strong DJs and aspiring ones. Whether spinning plates or in LTRs no matter how much you know there is more to learn.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mavrick

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And to think that we were all originally lab rats.

I'm glad you're coming around and finding this website valuable.
 
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It's ahight, but I miss my home forum...LoveShack... but not Tony.
It's fun to pick on girls on LS, lol
 

sosilky

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Tony takes his job way to seriously.. Love shack was mostly the worst advice I ever got.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saving one divorce at a time...
 
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