I would just like to say that finding this forum has been an excellent learning experience. Any interactions I've had with people positive or negative has added to that learning experience. I hold no ill will towards anyone. I think its great that a free site filled with so much valuable information is accesible. Perhaps the price we pay are the posts we encounter that are discouraging. Stay strong DJs and aspiring ones. Whether spinning plates or in LTRs no matter how much you know there is more to learn.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I would just like to say
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