"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I would just like to say

sosilky

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I would just like to say that finding this forum has been an excellent learning experience. Any interactions I've had with people positive or negative has added to that learning experience. I hold no ill will towards anyone. I think its great that a free site filled with so much valuable information is accesible. Perhaps the price we pay are the posts we encounter that are discouraging. Stay strong DJs and aspiring ones. Whether spinning plates or in LTRs no matter how much you know there is more to learn.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mavrick

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And to think that we were all originally lab rats.

I'm glad you're coming around and finding this website valuable.
 
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It's ahight, but I miss my home forum...LoveShack... but not Tony.
It's fun to pick on girls on LS, lol
 

sosilky

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Tony takes his job way to seriously.. Love shack was mostly the worst advice I ever got.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saving one divorce at a time...
 
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