"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would appear to be "testing" a girl

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Just found out today, from reading a girls online profile...

About 2 weeks ago I think I drunkenly mentioned to a girl I've been seeing...

"Im still testing you"... as in "you're not my gf yet" sort of thing.

She said back "well I'm still testing you then". Then I remember we sat down, and she said. "Well I still don't know you that well, what are your aims in life"...




Well today, she changed her online profile from interested in men, to women and posted she was being gay for a day!

Now I don't use this profile site much and try not to talk to her on it, instead focusing on when Im actually with her.


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Her friend posted on her wall, "gay eh, you may be on trial even more so"


Forgive me if im paranoid, but I think this girl thinks Im testing her- and I know I shouldn't have said what I said but whats the best way to move on from this. She is a great girl and treats me with a lot of respect :rockon:

She changed her status from single to nothing but mine still says single- she hasn't asked me to change it :rolleyes: THink I shouldn't message or contact her thru this site for now....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I doubt she even thought about you when she changed it.
 
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Heh, a little takeaway and she has you worried.

Tell her you will cure her of her lesbianity.
 
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Nighthawk said:
Heh, a little takeaway and she has you worried.

Tell her you will cure her of her lesbianity.
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That sounds gd, might drop that tonight....

but yeah I've been going to extremes, thinking I should next, then the next minute thinking I shouldn't... thats what happens when you get snowed in my friends.





Anyway, Im not worried about her sense of humour, Im mildly concerned upon seeing her friends post, about her on trial- I know a DJ covertly effects this feeling but does not overtly let a girl know this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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