"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would appear to be "testing" a girl

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Just found out today, from reading a girls online profile...

About 2 weeks ago I think I drunkenly mentioned to a girl I've been seeing...

"Im still testing you"... as in "you're not my gf yet" sort of thing.

She said back "well I'm still testing you then". Then I remember we sat down, and she said. "Well I still don't know you that well, what are your aims in life"...




Well today, she changed her online profile from interested in men, to women and posted she was being gay for a day!

Now I don't use this profile site much and try not to talk to her on it, instead focusing on when Im actually with her.


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Her friend posted on her wall, "gay eh, you may be on trial even more so"


Forgive me if im paranoid, but I think this girl thinks Im testing her- and I know I shouldn't have said what I said but whats the best way to move on from this. She is a great girl and treats me with a lot of respect :rockon:

She changed her status from single to nothing but mine still says single- she hasn't asked me to change it :rolleyes: THink I shouldn't message or contact her thru this site for now....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I doubt she even thought about you when she changed it.
 
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Heh, a little takeaway and she has you worried.

Tell her you will cure her of her lesbianity.
 
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Nighthawk said:
Heh, a little takeaway and she has you worried.

Tell her you will cure her of her lesbianity.
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That sounds gd, might drop that tonight....

but yeah I've been going to extremes, thinking I should next, then the next minute thinking I shouldn't... thats what happens when you get snowed in my friends.





Anyway, Im not worried about her sense of humour, Im mildly concerned upon seeing her friends post, about her on trial- I know a DJ covertly effects this feeling but does not overtly let a girl know this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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