"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would appear to be "testing" a girl

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Just found out today, from reading a girls online profile...

About 2 weeks ago I think I drunkenly mentioned to a girl I've been seeing...

"Im still testing you"... as in "you're not my gf yet" sort of thing.

She said back "well I'm still testing you then". Then I remember we sat down, and she said. "Well I still don't know you that well, what are your aims in life"...




Well today, she changed her online profile from interested in men, to women and posted she was being gay for a day!

Now I don't use this profile site much and try not to talk to her on it, instead focusing on when Im actually with her.


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Her friend posted on her wall, "gay eh, you may be on trial even more so"


Forgive me if im paranoid, but I think this girl thinks Im testing her- and I know I shouldn't have said what I said but whats the best way to move on from this. She is a great girl and treats me with a lot of respect :rockon:

She changed her status from single to nothing but mine still says single- she hasn't asked me to change it :rolleyes: THink I shouldn't message or contact her thru this site for now....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I doubt she even thought about you when she changed it.
 
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Heh, a little takeaway and she has you worried.

Tell her you will cure her of her lesbianity.
 
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Nighthawk said:
Heh, a little takeaway and she has you worried.

Tell her you will cure her of her lesbianity.
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That sounds gd, might drop that tonight....

but yeah I've been going to extremes, thinking I should next, then the next minute thinking I shouldn't... thats what happens when you get snowed in my friends.





Anyway, Im not worried about her sense of humour, Im mildly concerned upon seeing her friends post, about her on trial- I know a DJ covertly effects this feeling but does not overtly let a girl know this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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