"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wonder why they like me

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I've noticed some females in the community like me.

Even im surprised and they've added me on Instagram, check my stories and images. I haven't done much tbh.

I am very independent and just do my own thing, have my life together now and heading places.

I think they may like the fact I'm independent, doing my own thing, seemingly careless what others think.

Would you say it's down to my independence, doing my own thing? They may think I'm mentally stimulating
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stephen89 said:
I've noticed some females in the community like me.

Even im surprised and they've added me on Instagram, check my stories and images. I haven't done much tbh.

I am very independent and just do my own thing, have my life together now and heading places.

I think they may like the fact I'm independent, doing my own thing, seemingly careless what others think.

Would you say it's down to my independence, doing my own thing? They may think I'm mentally stimulating
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The question is why does this seem out of the ordinary to you? Are women supposed to ignore you? If you believed you're a catch you wouldn't be making this thread. Normalize success.
 
zekko

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The masculine attracts the feminine and vice versa. Unless there are negative aspects about you that mess that up for you, it shouldn't be a mystery. Women do have a lot of options, but having your life together and being on the rise is attractive. That's probably what sets you apart, plus I'm guessing you're physically attractive since they're liking your social media.

Anyway, men and women getting together is natural. I wouldn't try to second guess it or become overly egotistical about it, just go with the flow.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you mean by "females in the community"? Are you talking about neighbours, chicks at the local library, women walking dogs past your house? That kind of thing?
 
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