"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I wonder why they like me

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I've noticed some females in the community like me.

Even im surprised and they've added me on Instagram, check my stories and images. I haven't done much tbh.

I am very independent and just do my own thing, have my life together now and heading places.

I think they may like the fact I'm independent, doing my own thing, seemingly careless what others think.

Would you say it's down to my independence, doing my own thing? They may think I'm mentally stimulating
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stephen89 said:
I've noticed some females in the community like me.

Even im surprised and they've added me on Instagram, check my stories and images. I haven't done much tbh.

I am very independent and just do my own thing, have my life together now and heading places.

I think they may like the fact I'm independent, doing my own thing, seemingly careless what others think.

Would you say it's down to my independence, doing my own thing? They may think I'm mentally stimulating
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The question is why does this seem out of the ordinary to you? Are women supposed to ignore you? If you believed you're a catch you wouldn't be making this thread. Normalize success.
 
zekko

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The masculine attracts the feminine and vice versa. Unless there are negative aspects about you that mess that up for you, it shouldn't be a mystery. Women do have a lot of options, but having your life together and being on the rise is attractive. That's probably what sets you apart, plus I'm guessing you're physically attractive since they're liking your social media.

Anyway, men and women getting together is natural. I wouldn't try to second guess it or become overly egotistical about it, just go with the flow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do you mean by "females in the community"? Are you talking about neighbours, chicks at the local library, women walking dogs past your house? That kind of thing?
 
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