"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wish I was in college again..how to?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Eternal

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Moved to The Mature Man.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by KnightRyder
Now that I am post-college I want to be able to have that access to socials in college to get another chance, what are ways for a post-graduate to get into parties and stuff at college and to try to talk to college women of which college I don't goto and try to befriend "college girls" ?
I would recomend not living in the past. Your not in college anymore so why pretend like you are? Learn from your mistakes and move on with your life and make every day the best it can be.
 

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Well....alot of colleges have night classes for "enrichment". You know, wine tasting, how to do your taxes, desktop publishing and the like. This will get you back on campus. Can you take it from there?;)
 

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Look at this as an opportunity! Why not go back to college for a masters? This justifies being older and gets their respect right away. Then, all you have to do is get involved. Everyone in college is open to something new when the semester begins. Women/girls are no exception.

You can use your age to a great advantage. Girls will come to you for advice and then you can turn the game around on them by telling them that a counselor is available through student health services, free of charge. You can assist them with distraction from the problem, but you don't ever try to solve their problems.

Oh, wait! Read that again! Yes. It's true! They DO have problems at that age. Lots of dramatics going on. You sure you want to see a college girl?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get your teachers credentials. ;)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of curiosity, is there a specific reason for your interest in college other than recapturing the past? Like Vincent said, you're not in college anymore. Yeah, you can re-enroll but doing it just to meet women is a bit lame.

If you truly want to better yourself, go for it. Then you can capitalize on your current student status. It will be difficult to understand and appreciate where you are right now if you spend your efforts on trying to capture a moment that has already come and gone.
 

PocoDiablo

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Just enroll in some classes! I knew plenty of older guys who did that and got plenty of action. Everyone knew why they were there, and ... well... do I need to spell it out?
 

Marcopolo

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Go to grad school. You are no longer their peers, so forget about trying to pretend that you are. First, if you go to frat parties and try to act like a drunk 18 year old you will look like an idiot. However, it is to your advantage that you are no longer in their peer group. Many of these women want to date a slightly older, more sophisticated and worldly gentleman such as yourself rather than those immature drunk frat boys.
You are an intelligent grad student who is a calibere above a frat boy, play it up to the max. Also, many times if you are in a graduate program, you are in an instructional position. True, you do not want to be their therapist, but if you are tutoring them or teaching them in some way, many women develop a very powerful attraction to someone in this position without you even trying.
Don't just get a graduate degree to meet women, but in most cases a graduate degree will help you out in your career anyway, so you are killing two birds with one stone here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm pretty sure you have to enroll, pay tuition, buy books and attend classes. Oh yeah, you have to drink a lot of beer.

Unless they've changed things lately...

Gipper
 

Good_ol_boy

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Get a job!!!

Seriously, colleges need everything from groundskeepers to computer nerds, not to mention accountants and doctors.
 
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