KnightRyder
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I wish I was in college again..how to?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Well....alot of colleges have night classes for "enrichment". You know, wine tasting, how to do your taxes, desktop publishing and the like. This will get you back on campus. Can you take it from there?
Look at this as an opportunity! Why not go back to college for a masters? This justifies being older and gets their respect right away. Then, all you have to do is get involved. Everyone in college is open to something new when the semester begins. Women/girls are no exception.
You can use your age to a great advantage. Girls will come to you for advice and then you can turn the game around on them by telling them that a counselor is available through student health services, free of charge. You can assist them with distraction from the problem, but you don't ever try to solve their problems.
Oh, wait! Read that again! Yes. It's true! They DO have problems at that age. Lots of dramatics going on. You sure you want to see a college girl?
You can use your age to a great advantage. Girls will come to you for advice and then you can turn the game around on them by telling them that a counselor is available through student health services, free of charge. You can assist them with distraction from the problem, but you don't ever try to solve their problems.
Oh, wait! Read that again! Yes. It's true! They DO have problems at that age. Lots of dramatics going on. You sure you want to see a college girl?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PocoDiablo
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Get your teachers credentials.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Out of curiosity, is there a specific reason for your interest in college other than recapturing the past? Like Vincent said, you're not in college anymore. Yeah, you can re-enroll but doing it just to meet women is a bit lame.
If you truly want to better yourself, go for it. Then you can capitalize on your current student status. It will be difficult to understand and appreciate where you are right now if you spend your efforts on trying to capture a moment that has already come and gone.
If you truly want to better yourself, go for it. Then you can capitalize on your current student status. It will be difficult to understand and appreciate where you are right now if you spend your efforts on trying to capture a moment that has already come and gone.
KnightRyder
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Hey guys, relax will ya. I am only 23 years old.
PocoDiablo
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Just enroll in some classes! I knew plenty of older guys who did that and got plenty of action. Everyone knew why they were there, and ... well... do I need to spell it out?
Marcopolo
Senior Don Juan
Go to grad school. You are no longer their peers, so forget about trying to pretend that you are. First, if you go to frat parties and try to act like a drunk 18 year old you will look like an idiot. However, it is to your advantage that you are no longer in their peer group. Many of these women want to date a slightly older, more sophisticated and worldly gentleman such as yourself rather than those immature drunk frat boys.
You are an intelligent grad student who is a calibere above a frat boy, play it up to the max. Also, many times if you are in a graduate program, you are in an instructional position. True, you do not want to be their therapist, but if you are tutoring them or teaching them in some way, many women develop a very powerful attraction to someone in this position without you even trying.
Don't just get a graduate degree to meet women, but in most cases a graduate degree will help you out in your career anyway, so you are killing two birds with one stone here.
You are an intelligent grad student who is a calibere above a frat boy, play it up to the max. Also, many times if you are in a graduate program, you are in an instructional position. True, you do not want to be their therapist, but if you are tutoring them or teaching them in some way, many women develop a very powerful attraction to someone in this position without you even trying.
Don't just get a graduate degree to meet women, but in most cases a graduate degree will help you out in your career anyway, so you are killing two birds with one stone here.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
Get a job!!!
Seriously, colleges need everything from groundskeepers to computer nerds, not to mention accountants and doctors.
Seriously, colleges need everything from groundskeepers to computer nerds, not to mention accountants and doctors.