“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wish I didn't belong to the Facebook generation.

lugsy211

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Facebook. Without a doubt a fantastic tool for social networking.

Yet as a college student, some days I wish it never existed. Like after a messy night, it seems like every aspect of my life is being caught on camera, the good, the bad and the ugly.

Is there any respite from the intense need of today's youth to record EVERY single moment of their boring lives on camera?

I worry about a potential target finding a nasty photo of me in one of these albums. I'm not a bad looking guy, in fact I consider myself to be a catch, yet my best attribute; the bluest eyes you'll ever see, can only muster the nasty grey blue in a poor photographer's snap. And the flash? Lets just say it doesn't do wonders for my ruddy Irish skin. I think I'll be spending yet more time detagging after the next night out.

Perhaps I'd like to imagine myself ten years back when much more emphasis was placed on the here and now and rather than posing for photos. The narcissistic ego seems to have taken a step up amongst college students and kids in particular, I mean my football captain records every moment of his life with a photo or status update.

I don't want to delete my account as I use it to keep in touch with friends thousands of miles away. The most recent breakthrough for me is with a girl who barely uses facebook, an extremely refreshing attribute.

What are your opinions on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am confused, are you more worry about how you look in the pics or that people will catch you at a bad moment doing something embarrassing???
 

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Haha I like your quote... I guess worried about both... moreover commenting on how obsessed we (including, I) get over Facebook, it's like a national addiction over here in the UK
 

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I kind of like being connected to everybody I know through one website, although it is true that most of the information there is absolutely 100% useless...so I use it in moderation and mostly for talking with my male friends. I usually text to interact with interested females...

But at the same time, facebook and texting are both a bit ridiculous in their own ways. I understand why some of the older members here hate on them so much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I completely agree with the op. At every social gathering people feel the need to bring a camera per person. I really dislike having my picture taken and hence I avoid them at all costs.
 
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