"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I wish I didn't belong to the Facebook generation.

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Facebook. Without a doubt a fantastic tool for social networking.

Yet as a college student, some days I wish it never existed. Like after a messy night, it seems like every aspect of my life is being caught on camera, the good, the bad and the ugly.

Is there any respite from the intense need of today's youth to record EVERY single moment of their boring lives on camera?

I worry about a potential target finding a nasty photo of me in one of these albums. I'm not a bad looking guy, in fact I consider myself to be a catch, yet my best attribute; the bluest eyes you'll ever see, can only muster the nasty grey blue in a poor photographer's snap. And the flash? Lets just say it doesn't do wonders for my ruddy Irish skin. I think I'll be spending yet more time detagging after the next night out.

Perhaps I'd like to imagine myself ten years back when much more emphasis was placed on the here and now and rather than posing for photos. The narcissistic ego seems to have taken a step up amongst college students and kids in particular, I mean my football captain records every moment of his life with a photo or status update.

I don't want to delete my account as I use it to keep in touch with friends thousands of miles away. The most recent breakthrough for me is with a girl who barely uses facebook, an extremely refreshing attribute.

What are your opinions on this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am confused, are you more worry about how you look in the pics or that people will catch you at a bad moment doing something embarrassing???
 

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Haha I like your quote... I guess worried about both... moreover commenting on how obsessed we (including, I) get over Facebook, it's like a national addiction over here in the UK
 

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I kind of like being connected to everybody I know through one website, although it is true that most of the information there is absolutely 100% useless...so I use it in moderation and mostly for talking with my male friends. I usually text to interact with interested females...

But at the same time, facebook and texting are both a bit ridiculous in their own ways. I understand why some of the older members here hate on them so much.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I completely agree with the op. At every social gathering people feel the need to bring a camera per person. I really dislike having my picture taken and hence I avoid them at all costs.
 
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