That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm ok to look at, many guys like me, some girls are prettier than me, I'm on the internet, so I can say that I'm sexy, just like you guys want to be hot, so do us girls, :rock:TheMan425 said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm no Jessica Simpson, but some guys like me, if you looked like Brad Pitt then it would be awesome to meet you, he is so hot. :yes:TheMan425 said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I may as well forget about posting messages on this site as most of you guys seem to hate me anyway, but if you saw me in real life you would be nice to me because you want sex.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Um, does creating a username just to make a post like this even count as trolling? Don't reply to this s'hit, there's no point. I'd rather this thread turn into another looks debate than watch people actually debate the dude's original statement. I mean seriously, the giveaway was when "she" said that "she" wants a hot guy when we all know how important looks are when your game is top-notch.
No wonder you have joined this site as you are never going to impress a woman, until you grow up and become a mature human being.Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Your no Jessica Simpson but guys like you....wow....im no Brad Pitt but girls love me. Lets meet and i will show you how its all done. Dont worry about the age diffrence.Princess Jo said:
At least there is one decent guy posting on my thread, you can meet me on my yahoo page if you so desire. :yes:Tomatoes said:Your no Jessica Simpson but guys like you....wow....im no Brad Pitt but girls love me. Lets meet and i will show you how its all done. Dont worry about the age diffrence.
Sarge On!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yea I have the same feeling about all these new people signing up aswell.Exp said:
You think every new person on this site is a fake or the same one person, you are crazy.typical said:
You seem to have the mental age of 16:crazy:...Princess Jo said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maybe you are a girl pretending to be a guy, lets see if you can handle that, you think you are above everyone else who posts on this site, you really are pathetic. :yes:Le Parisien said:
:crackup: Where do you live? Women seem to age badly over there!
32 is young.:yes:Blusher said:
If I'm a girl then I'm an attention wh0re, you are all very cruel.[S]alvatore said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.