You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm ok to look at, many guys like me, some girls are prettier than me, I'm on the internet, so I can say that I'm sexy, just like you guys want to be hot, so do us girls, :rock:TheMan425 said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm no Jessica Simpson, but some guys like me, if you looked like Brad Pitt then it would be awesome to meet you, he is so hot. :yes:TheMan425 said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I may as well forget about posting messages on this site as most of you guys seem to hate me anyway, but if you saw me in real life you would be nice to me because you want sex.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Um, does creating a username just to make a post like this even count as trolling? Don't reply to this s'hit, there's no point. I'd rather this thread turn into another looks debate than watch people actually debate the dude's original statement. I mean seriously, the giveaway was when "she" said that "she" wants a hot guy when we all know how important looks are when your game is top-notch.
No wonder you have joined this site as you are never going to impress a woman, until you grow up and become a mature human being.Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Your no Jessica Simpson but guys like you....wow....im no Brad Pitt but girls love me. Lets meet and i will show you how its all done. Dont worry about the age diffrence.Princess Jo said:
At least there is one decent guy posting on my thread, you can meet me on my yahoo page if you so desire. :yes:Tomatoes said:Your no Jessica Simpson but guys like you....wow....im no Brad Pitt but girls love me. Lets meet and i will show you how its all done. Dont worry about the age diffrence.
Sarge On!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yea I have the same feeling about all these new people signing up aswell.Exp said:
You think every new person on this site is a fake or the same one person, you are crazy.typical said:
You seem to have the mental age of 16:crazy:...Princess Jo said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maybe you are a girl pretending to be a guy, lets see if you can handle that, you think you are above everyone else who posts on this site, you really are pathetic. :yes:Le Parisien said:
:crackup: Where do you live? Women seem to age badly over there!
32 is young.:yes:Blusher said:
If I'm a girl then I'm an attention wh0re, you are all very cruel.[S]alvatore said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.