"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was trying to dance with these girls

crossboss

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One girl pushed me and smiled. She said "Out of your league." I am like 99% sure she was wasn't flirting. Or maybe she wasn't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NSUballer

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maybe she was saying nicely that she wasnt interested/ that she might be interested if you know what to do/say....theres only one way to find out right?
 

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Should of replied
"League? Explain."
or
"Ok" and keep dancing
 

LostAndConfused

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"Who are you to say who's in your league and who isnt?" smile and walk away

"Maybe in your dream world girl" smile and walk away.

"You're right, I'm too good for you." smile and walk away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You're right, I shouldn't get your hopes up."-smile and walk away.
 

Cruise

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Should've bought a coke and rum and poured that **** on the biatch.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Randallpink83

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noirsake said:
Should of replied
"League? Explain."
or
"Ok" and keep dancing

This is the only reply I like so far.

all the smart witty comebacks and disses just scream "you hurt me I have to fight back... you direct my world and my frame of mind... I feel like you might be stronger so I HAVE to prove that I'm a man and stronger".

Just stay non-reactive... If a girl gives you a sh!t test and you are reacting to it... you fail.. plain and simple.

Of course if you arent reacting yet comeback at her for your own enjoyment and humor, then thats fine.
Its hard to be unreactive to some of the girls crap... One of the main things I work on.. not caring what people think of me.
 

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...or you can reply with something totally unrelated.

Her: "out of your league"

You: "Man I love limes and salt, perfect combination" - keep dancing

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Her: "out of your league"

You: "My 8th grade english teacher was gay" - keep on dancing


.....but still even better would be just to simply nod "yeah okay" and keep dancing. Ignore her crap, it has nothing on you... She just wants to make sure you can handle her.




So many guys... the first thing they want to do is react, "Its your loss!" and walk away... I mean c'mon put yourself in her shoes. If you blew someone off and then they were like, your Loss b!tch!!!... You would be like, whatever loser go cry in the corner like I know your going to.
 

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Haha, I would go along with LostandConfused's ""You're right, I'm too good for you." smile and walk away."

That's gold. ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jerry Maguire

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Dude this is how some girls get their validation.
They're hot to start with, then they get their make up on, then they wear something a little revealing, then they get their kicks from guys approaching them and by knocking them back with lame insults like that.
They probably have low REAL self esteem, low values and exercise little power in their lives.
Don't ever let them make you feel bad, or let them have any power over you at all.
 

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Thanks for the replies.

Nah, she's not worth it anyways, I've been with with hotter girls. I could say "Who cares about your league" or "Ha, Ha you are only saying that because you know you aren't my type."
 

billy_bronx

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how bout u jus laugh in her face and walk away..lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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