"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I was trying to dance with these girls
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NSUballer
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LostAndConfused
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"Maybe in your dream world girl" smile and walk away.
"You're right, I'm too good for you." smile and walk away.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MooseGod
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Christopher Philip
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Randallpink83
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noirsake said:
This is the only reply I like so far.
all the smart witty comebacks and disses just scream "you hurt me I have to fight back... you direct my world and my frame of mind... I feel like you might be stronger so I HAVE to prove that I'm a man and stronger".
Just stay non-reactive... If a girl gives you a sh!t test and you are reacting to it... you fail.. plain and simple.
Of course if you arent reacting yet comeback at her for your own enjoyment and humor, then thats fine.
Its hard to be unreactive to some of the girls crap... One of the main things I work on.. not caring what people think of me.
Fred Da Head
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And waste perfectly good rum?Cruise said:
Randallpink83
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Her: "out of your league"
You: "Man I love limes and salt, perfect combination" - keep dancing
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Her: "out of your league"
You: "My 8th grade english teacher was gay" - keep on dancing
.....but still even better would be just to simply nod "yeah okay" and keep dancing. Ignore her crap, it has nothing on you... She just wants to make sure you can handle her.
So many guys... the first thing they want to do is react, "Its your loss!" and walk away... I mean c'mon put yourself in her shoes. If you blew someone off and then they were like, your Loss b!tch!!!... You would be like, whatever loser go cry in the corner like I know your going to.
Kev07
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Jerry Maguire
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They're hot to start with, then they get their make up on, then they wear something a little revealing, then they get their kicks from guys approaching them and by knocking them back with lame insults like that.
They probably have low REAL self esteem, low values and exercise little power in their lives.
Don't ever let them make you feel bad, or let them have any power over you at all.
Randallpink83
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Randallpink83
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yeah I like this too!Danger said:
billy_bronx
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.