"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was trying to dance with these girls

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One girl pushed me and smiled. She said "Out of your league." I am like 99% sure she was wasn't flirting. Or maybe she wasn't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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maybe she was saying nicely that she wasnt interested/ that she might be interested if you know what to do/say....theres only one way to find out right?
 
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Should of replied
"League? Explain."
or
"Ok" and keep dancing
 
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"Who are you to say who's in your league and who isnt?" smile and walk away

"Maybe in your dream world girl" smile and walk away.

"You're right, I'm too good for you." smile and walk away.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You're right, I shouldn't get your hopes up."-smile and walk away.
 
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Should've bought a coke and rum and poured that **** on the biatch.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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noirsake said:
Should of replied
"League? Explain."
or
"Ok" and keep dancing
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This is the only reply I like so far.

all the smart witty comebacks and disses just scream "you hurt me I have to fight back... you direct my world and my frame of mind... I feel like you might be stronger so I HAVE to prove that I'm a man and stronger".

Just stay non-reactive... If a girl gives you a sh!t test and you are reacting to it... you fail.. plain and simple.

Of course if you arent reacting yet comeback at her for your own enjoyment and humor, then thats fine.
Its hard to be unreactive to some of the girls crap... One of the main things I work on.. not caring what people think of me.
 
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...or you can reply with something totally unrelated.

Her: "out of your league"

You: "Man I love limes and salt, perfect combination" - keep dancing

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Her: "out of your league"

You: "My 8th grade english teacher was gay" - keep on dancing


.....but still even better would be just to simply nod "yeah okay" and keep dancing. Ignore her crap, it has nothing on you... She just wants to make sure you can handle her.




So many guys... the first thing they want to do is react, "Its your loss!" and walk away... I mean c'mon put yourself in her shoes. If you blew someone off and then they were like, your Loss b!tch!!!... You would be like, whatever loser go cry in the corner like I know your going to.
 
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Haha, I would go along with LostandConfused's ""You're right, I'm too good for you." smile and walk away."

That's gold. ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude this is how some girls get their validation.
They're hot to start with, then they get their make up on, then they wear something a little revealing, then they get their kicks from guys approaching them and by knocking them back with lame insults like that.
They probably have low REAL self esteem, low values and exercise little power in their lives.
Don't ever let them make you feel bad, or let them have any power over you at all.
 
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Thanks for the replies.

Nah, she's not worth it anyways, I've been with with hotter girls. I could say "Who cares about your league" or "Ha, Ha you are only saying that because you know you aren't my type."
 
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how bout u jus laugh in her face and walk away..lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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