"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was testing my gurl, womanesse what does it mean?

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how

how do i work on not being so emotional with her. LTR are about emotions. Shud i act like i dont want her or need her when i do, shud i pretend that she doesnt mean so much to me when she does. What should i do
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by kk2004
Well i wanted to test my gurls intrest level. So i asked this question when i thought the time was right.

I asked "Hey i think u would get sick of me if u saw me everyday, wouldnt u?"
  1. DJs don't give tests, women do.
  2. Women (not game players) who are truly interested will let you know in no uncertain terms.
  3. Your question reeks of insecurity.
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Okay when I read that conversation I had a really hard time keeping track of who the girl was.
G, I like your perception. :up:
 

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im

im just too attached, if she dont call me i get hurt. I dont like what i have become, i need to chill out. Guys its like i NEED her and its killing me. What shud i do, i just cant keep my mind of her.
 

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It is good you know you would be better to not entertain these thoughts. Be thankful for that.

This is just one situation though. What are you going to do to permanently get rid of the neediness?

Different people say different things.

For me it is simple.

1. I am a healthy man
2. I am smart, and strong(mentally) and self-sufficient.
3. I am sexy because I am strong and a leader
4. The future is limitless for me.

As long as these things are true I know I will always have other women available to me.


Focus more on self improvement, less on specific women. It will pay big dividends.

Peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: im

Originally posted by kk2004
im just too attached, if she dont call me i get hurt. I dont like what i have become, i need to chill out. Guys its like i NEED her and its killing me. What shud i do, i just cant keep my mind of her.
Meet and interact with additional women, the more the better. It's the best way to combat 'one-itis.'
 

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I truely feel sorry for you.

this is the girl you have been posting about now right for a while?

this is a waste of ur time!

believe me!

move on.


this is simple.

she doesnt remotely feel how u do about her.


sorry
 
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