"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I was testing my gurl, womanesse what does it mean?

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how

how do i work on not being so emotional with her. LTR are about emotions. Shud i act like i dont want her or need her when i do, shud i pretend that she doesnt mean so much to me when she does. What should i do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by kk2004
Well i wanted to test my gurls intrest level. So i asked this question when i thought the time was right.

I asked "Hey i think u would get sick of me if u saw me everyday, wouldnt u?"
  1. DJs don't give tests, women do.
  2. Women (not game players) who are truly interested will let you know in no uncertain terms.
  3. Your question reeks of insecurity.
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Okay when I read that conversation I had a really hard time keeping track of who the girl was.
G, I like your perception. :up:
 

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im

im just too attached, if she dont call me i get hurt. I dont like what i have become, i need to chill out. Guys its like i NEED her and its killing me. What shud i do, i just cant keep my mind of her.
 

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It is good you know you would be better to not entertain these thoughts. Be thankful for that.

This is just one situation though. What are you going to do to permanently get rid of the neediness?

Different people say different things.

For me it is simple.

1. I am a healthy man
2. I am smart, and strong(mentally) and self-sufficient.
3. I am sexy because I am strong and a leader
4. The future is limitless for me.

As long as these things are true I know I will always have other women available to me.


Focus more on self improvement, less on specific women. It will pay big dividends.

Peace
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: im

Originally posted by kk2004
im just too attached, if she dont call me i get hurt. I dont like what i have become, i need to chill out. Guys its like i NEED her and its killing me. What shud i do, i just cant keep my mind of her.
Meet and interact with additional women, the more the better. It's the best way to combat 'one-itis.'
 

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I truely feel sorry for you.

this is the girl you have been posting about now right for a while?

this is a waste of ur time!

believe me!

move on.


this is simple.

she doesnt remotely feel how u do about her.


sorry
 
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