"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was testing my gurl, womanesse what does it mean?

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how

how do i work on not being so emotional with her. LTR are about emotions. Shud i act like i dont want her or need her when i do, shud i pretend that she doesnt mean so much to me when she does. What should i do
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by kk2004
Well i wanted to test my gurls intrest level. So i asked this question when i thought the time was right.

I asked "Hey i think u would get sick of me if u saw me everyday, wouldnt u?"
  1. DJs don't give tests, women do.
  2. Women (not game players) who are truly interested will let you know in no uncertain terms.
  3. Your question reeks of insecurity.
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Okay when I read that conversation I had a really hard time keeping track of who the girl was.
G, I like your perception. :up:
 

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im

im just too attached, if she dont call me i get hurt. I dont like what i have become, i need to chill out. Guys its like i NEED her and its killing me. What shud i do, i just cant keep my mind of her.
 

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It is good you know you would be better to not entertain these thoughts. Be thankful for that.

This is just one situation though. What are you going to do to permanently get rid of the neediness?

Different people say different things.

For me it is simple.

1. I am a healthy man
2. I am smart, and strong(mentally) and self-sufficient.
3. I am sexy because I am strong and a leader
4. The future is limitless for me.

As long as these things are true I know I will always have other women available to me.


Focus more on self improvement, less on specific women. It will pay big dividends.

Peace
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: im

Originally posted by kk2004
im just too attached, if she dont call me i get hurt. I dont like what i have become, i need to chill out. Guys its like i NEED her and its killing me. What shud i do, i just cant keep my mind of her.
Meet and interact with additional women, the more the better. It's the best way to combat 'one-itis.'
 

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I truely feel sorry for you.

this is the girl you have been posting about now right for a while?

this is a waste of ur time!

believe me!

move on.


this is simple.

she doesnt remotely feel how u do about her.


sorry
 
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