"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was testing my gurl, womanesse what does it mean?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
- DJs don't give tests, women do.
- Women (not game players) who are truly interested will let you know in no uncertain terms.
- Your question reeks of insecurity.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
G, I like your perception.
DJohnson
Don Juan
This is just one situation though. What are you going to do to permanently get rid of the neediness?
Different people say different things.
For me it is simple.
1. I am a healthy man
2. I am smart, and strong(mentally) and self-sufficient.
3. I am sexy because I am strong and a leader
4. The future is limitless for me.
As long as these things are true I know I will always have other women available to me.
Focus more on self improvement, less on specific women. It will pay big dividends.
Peace
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Meet and interact with additional women, the more the better. It's the best way to combat 'one-itis.'
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this is the girl you have been posting about now right for a while?
this is a waste of ur time!
believe me!
move on.
this is simple.
she doesnt remotely feel how u do about her.
sorry