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I was talking to a woman about cold approaches:

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We were talking the other day about cold approaches. She says she gives out her number every time a guy cold approaches and asks for it even if she has no intention of texting back as a way to encourage the guy to keep doing it.

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We were talking the other day about cold approaches. She says she gives out her number every time a guy cold approaches and asks for it even if she has no intention of texting back as a way to encourage the guy to keep doing it.

Thoughts?
Sounds about right. That is very nice of her, I guess? Haha

But the reality is there are many reasons why women do that. They might just not want a confrontation at the moment. They don't have boundaries and have never learned to say no so they say yes to everything. Etc, etc.

Every woman is, obviously, different. They will each have their "own" reasons. It def has happened to me, get a bunch of numbers, hit them up, and either do not respond but most times just play wishy-washy which I do not do so I move on.

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1) Some guys become aggressive or spitefully mean even when they are rejected in a friendly way, like i remember at least one of the chest thumpers on this forum showed that he became. I would suspect that this behavior is correlated with cluster B personality tendency.

2) Other times the woman just doesnt want to feel bad for turning the guy down directly.

3) She might have actually changed her mind, for what could be whatever reason. Maybe her friends trash talked the guy. Maybe her ex contacted her. Maybe both giving out her number and then rejecting him were both just fleeting whims. Maybe her hormones shifted by the time he contacted her.
 
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When I approached back in the day I got a lot of women saying “no but I’m impressed!” Or some variation of that. I always walked away bitter thinking “if you’re so impressed why you reject me ho?” Kk. But it was annoying
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is the most common reason. Plenty of guys out there don't respond so well to "no", so women play along to avoid such reactions.
exactly. I honestly can't imagine taking a rejection super bad to the point I freak out and cuss and even get physical etc (i'm just like 'Oh! Fair enough! Have a good night' smile and walk away), but the fact is, tonnes of guys do! And so many girls have experienced it and they figure it's better to give him the number (even a real one in case he calls her there and then) and then just block him. Less risky than the potential alternative.
 

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Guys with balls (unafraid of rejection) are more likely than those without, to run into and fck hot girls who are into them.
Not in my experience. Online was the way for me. Anyone can have balls online
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not in my experience
you're an outlier. you've said you had 0 lays in the 3 years you cold approached. Think you also said you mainly did daygame. the least efficient way to go about racking up lays.
 

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you're an outlier. you've said you had 0 lays in the 3 years you cold approached. Think you also said you mainly did daygame. the least efficient way to go about racking up lays.
Yeah. Still I thought the fact that I had balls would distinguish me from other guys and create attraction. But if I understand you correctly, all it does is increase your chances of finding a girl that is already into you
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is the most common reason. Plenty of guys out there don't respond so well to "no", so women play along to avoid such reactions.
We respond to “no” just fine. What we don’t respond to is bs and dancing around the real reason. Same with breakups. Don’t tell me “something changed” or something stupid and vague like that.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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