"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was Lame Today

djweses89

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so dissapointed in myself ive came back to this site after not bein here for a long time like 3 weeks ago because my dating life was gettin pretty bad. When i first came here like a year ago i only read mabey 2 or 3 articles it helped but not alot. But scense ive been back ive been reading anything i can on here been on the forums everyday. Its helped my life so much girls is a breeze for me now. But i do have one problem. I can talk to girls make them laugh make them have alot of intrest flirt all of that good stuff easy now but today i was so dissapointed in myself. theres this chick ive been working in my 4th i can tell shes pretty intrested. today i was gunna get her number because ive pretty much been forgettin to. and i have no problem talkin to hot girls im not shy at all but for some reason i couldnt pull myself to go get her number at the end of class today . I just left i get out at the senior bell which is like 3 min earlier than everyone elses bell shes a grade under me. Im just wondering what happend to me. and if anyones got any mental ideas to make it easier for me to ask for that number because like i said im not shy at all or not confident hell im pretty sure she will even give it to me wit pleasure but agian for some reason i couldnt pull myself to askin her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Skilla_Staz

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Hey, before I head out, write your number down so I can give you a call sometime.


Bam there you go.
 

djweses89

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haha i know its that easy just i was wonder if there some reason that made me kind of choke and i know its not bein shy cus like i said no problem wit me talking to any girl mabey its just cus these new found confidence is new to me and im not used to it yet
 

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Do the three-second rule when you see her next or think about her number. Don't go more than 3 seconds without making a move, it's too much time for your mind to think about all the things that could go wrong/be awkward.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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