I was Lame Today

[djweses89]

so dissapointed in myself ive came back to this site after not bein here for a long time like 3 weeks ago because my dating life was gettin pretty bad. When i first came here like a year ago i only read mabey 2 or 3 articles it helped but not alot. But scense ive been back ive been reading anything i can on here been on the forums everyday. Its helped my life so much girls is a breeze for me now. But i do have one problem. I can talk to girls make them laugh make them have alot of intrest flirt all of that good stuff easy now but today i was so dissapointed in myself. theres this chick ive been working in my 4th i can tell shes pretty intrested. today i was gunna get her number because ive pretty much been forgettin to. and i have no problem talkin to hot girls im not shy at all but for some reason i couldnt pull myself to go get her number at the end of class today . I just left i get out at the senior bell which is like 3 min earlier than everyone elses bell shes a grade under me. Im just wondering what happend to me. and if anyones got any mental ideas to make it easier for me to ask for that number because like i said im not shy at all or not confident hell im pretty sure she will even give it to me wit pleasure but agian for some reason i couldnt pull myself to askin her.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Hey, before I head out, write your number down so I can give you a call sometime.


Bam there you go.

 

[djweses89]

haha i know its that easy just i was wonder if there some reason that made me kind of choke and i know its not bein shy cus like i said no problem wit me talking to any girl mabey its just cus these new found confidence is new to me and im not used to it yet

 

[asdfghjkl]

maybe your getting oneitis?

 

[gyrahf]

Do the three-second rule when you see her next or think about her number. Don't go more than 3 seconds without making a move, it's too much time for your mind to think about all the things that could go wrong/be awkward.