I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
yes and Julian's mom*cashier was 67 years old
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
trust me they all want Chad's D...I've met a cashier today too that had a nice attitude that made me feel I could have asked for her number. These things come here and there but I typically freeze up when that happens because it feels like a "nice-bomb". Yeah, she may want to do something, but you freeze up and just go on with the transaction. I feel like I'll put myself on the spot, put her on the spot infront of her co-workers and other customers in the store and make a scene if I try something like that, or the interaction feels too rushed to go for the number.
Tell me, would you go back and ask for her number once you left the store, or if you know when she's working there?
That's not what you said in the original post. So you mean to edit the part where she wanted to "bleep" you?trust me they all want Chad's D...
i said dshe wanted to beelp me in first postThat's not what you said in the original post. So you mean to edit the part where she wanted to "bleep" you?
Yeah exactly man! Change is the word i was looking for. Thanx"Cashier touched my hand, when giving me change, so i posted on SS about it"
A desirable man is incapable of servicing every woman attracted to him. In fact, he's incapable of even noticing.
My testicle shrank when I read your post. It's just that sad.
Sad posts attract sad people."Cashier touched my hand, when giving me change, so i posted on SS about it"
A desirable man is incapable of servicing every woman attracted to him. In fact, he's incapable of even noticing.
My testicles shrank when I read your post. It's just that sad.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yes and Julian's mom
Go back 2 store....buy a whole load shlt of grocery/items stand in line at her cash register. You now have about 3 minutes to interact with her. Ask for her phone # and name.she touchedmy hand when she didnt have to when she was giving me the cash, she also touched her hair in flirty way.
im sure she wanted me to fugg her because im tall and not bad looking
thanks man but then ill be beta. real Chad does nothing and women run after him and break through his doorsGo back 2 store....buy a whole load shlt of grocery/items stand in line at her cash register. You now have about 3 minutes to interact with her. Ask for her phone # and name.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a girl/woman/lady wants you... She does not see you as a beta.thanks man but then ill be beta. real Chad does nothing and women run after him and break through his doors
There is no legal way to view this movie (ie out of print, not available for rent in any streaming platform. Basically there is a pirated copy on youtube with terrible picture and audio quality. It also has low critical and audience score which is 5.2 on IMDB and 15% on Rotten Tomatoes, probably why it's a "forgotten movie". What about 40 Year Old Virgin and Hitch? These are movies made during the last decade but still holds up today and it's easier to find around.Watch the movie "never talk to strangers" and see how Antonio Banderas handles the situation..... Does he look like Beta to you???
I believe it was an accident. she didnt intended to touch him, but happened during the time she gave him some change. Just go back to store and hang around to see what happens.There is no legal way to view this movie (ie out of print, not available for rent in any streaming platform. Basically there is a pirated copy on youtube with terrible picture and audio quality. It also has low critical and audience score which is 5.2 on IMDB and 15% on Rotten Tomatoes, probably why it's a "forgotten movie". What about 40 Year Old Virgin and Hitch? These are movies made during the last decade but still holds up today and it's easier to find around.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.