mongoose01
Don Juan
This morning my GF was giving me oral and i was hard as a rock. I was ready to have straight sex, but had to use the bathroom really bad, so I did. When I came back my stuff wouldn't get hard as before. Any body know why?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was about to have sex this morning...BUT
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phillydude
Don Juan
As the Beatles sang: Isn't it good... my morning wood.
When you wake up, your bladder is full, which puts pressure on the base of your penis, trapping the blood flow. BOING! You've got a woody!
After you take a leak, the pressure is gone, and it's up to her to make you stiff again. Which I hope she did.
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When you wake up, your bladder is full, which puts pressure on the base of your penis, trapping the blood flow. BOING! You've got a woody!
After you take a leak, the pressure is gone, and it's up to her to make you stiff again. Which I hope she did.
A lot of guys who have trouble getting it up use this "natural" enhancement to achieve full erections without Viagra.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
Hmm. I thought morning wood was caused by the elevated testosterone and HGH levels during the early morning hours.
I have no idea as to why you weren't still ready to go after you took a leak....
However, I'm sure this topic will get moved to anything else...
I have no idea as to why you weren't still ready to go after you took a leak....
However, I'm sure this topic will get moved to anything else...
TrickyD
Don Juan
I know what you're sayin...
This exact thing happened to me this morning... almost the exact same scenario. This fourm section is definitely gonna be a place for me to frequent if for no other reason to compare notes!
Definitely a "false alarm" that morning wood. Would not count on it initially. Fortunately, my girl made things right and she went to work very satisfied...
This exact thing happened to me this morning... almost the exact same scenario. This fourm section is definitely gonna be a place for me to frequent if for no other reason to compare notes!
Definitely a "false alarm" that morning wood. Would not count on it initially. Fortunately, my girl made things right and she went to work very satisfied...
GirlCrazy
Master Don Juan
I don't seem to perform as well in the morning either.
Usually takes me a half hour to wake up and a cup of coffee before I'm good to go.
Damn I think you guys are onto something here!
Usually takes me a half hour to wake up and a cup of coffee before I'm good to go.
Damn I think you guys are onto something here!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Guys, stop beating it for a month and you'll have erections like you did in high school. i think this "Males sexual peak at 18" thing is just bollocks. It comes from the fact that at 28 you've been massively overdraining your system for 10 years by knocking one out morning and night.
JMEJT, YMMV
(Just My Enormous John Thomas, Your Model May Vary).
JMEJT, YMMV
(Just My Enormous John Thomas, Your Model May Vary).
stevera004
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Less wanking helps, keep it as a last resort. What also helps is working out; and I don't mean Ironman stuff. In fact, when I used to run hard it negatively impacted wood attainment. RUn a little bit (5-10 minutes a day every day) and lift a little bit (10 minutes a day every day) and you'll be fine. Losing weight never hurt either.
mongoose01
Don Juan
update
I don't know what happened. my gf says because i took that piss was the problem.
i've had no problems since then.
matter of fact, i've been eating healthier lately (fish, fruit, veggies, etc), my stuff is better than ever. i recommend everyone to eat your fruits and veggies everyday and mix in come clams, mussels, oysters every so often.
I don't know what happened. my gf says because i took that piss was the problem.
i've had no problems since then.
matter of fact, i've been eating healthier lately (fish, fruit, veggies, etc), my stuff is better than ever. i recommend everyone to eat your fruits and veggies everyday and mix in come clams, mussels, oysters every so often.
mongoose01
Don Juan
one more thing
since i've been eating healthier (i think it's the fruits) and cut down on the drinking, i *** like crazy.
yesterday she gave me oral (it's her time of the month) and a fvcking pond came out. she was like damm! I can't digest all that! sh!t is great.
check this out.
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/food/foodforsex.html
since i've been eating healthier (i think it's the fruits) and cut down on the drinking, i *** like crazy.
yesterday she gave me oral (it's her time of the month) and a fvcking pond came out. she was like damm! I can't digest all that! sh!t is great.
check this out.
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/food/foodforsex.html
Crank_It_Up
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I've noticed I can fvck longer when I'm well rested, especially when I first wake up. It doesn't matter if it's the morning or the middle of the night, or just a quick cat nap. Something about sleep greatly improves the ability to acquire and maintain a good erection.
Most of you guys are younger and not too worried about this stuff yet, but I can assure you, at age 49, I'm paying attention to what works for me.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.