Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I was about to have a ONS and then I got a flat tire...

guywhoneedshelp

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She was HB9. We had to wait for over an hour for roadside assistance to come. But it was kind of cool though because I got to talk to her when she was sober. I then gave her the syle necklace routine in her driveway, and she has already started texting me.

She'll always be that girl from the club, but because we were stuck in the car for so long we kinda got to know each other and realized there was a lot of chemistry. Hmm...

So instead of just having one night of sex we may have countless nights of sex. She did give me a handjob in the club too and I fingered her nicely.


"To give to girls as gifts after a number-close. Ask, "You're not a thief, are you?" Then slowly remove your necklace or thumb ring, put it on her, kiss her, and say, "This is still mine. It's something to remember me by. I want it back next time I see you." After she leaves, replace your jewerly with a spare from the bag."

Neil Strauss; The Game, Page 81
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^This is what I'm talking about man, I'm trying to get to that level (not the flat tire lol)

Good **** Kev

Solo
 

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Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
 

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#41 said:
Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
Exactly, I can change a flat tire within 5mins. And propbably impressing her more in the process. Then I would've taken her home and got the ONS. The OP isn't even likely to see this girl again. Why didn't she hook up that night?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would of changed the tire. Did not have the proper tools. I just bought this car so I haven't prepared it yet.

She has been texting me all day. The incident brought us closer. Why so negative?

And yes that happened in the club in front of people.
 

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slaog said:
I'd be careful of any woman who would do that in a club. Not exactly the classiest thing to do.
Love at first sight...

No, I'm kidding. I know. She'll always be "the girl from the club."
 

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damn she is cute...and really drunk...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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