"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was about to have a ONS and then I got a flat tire...

guywhoneedshelp

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She was HB9. We had to wait for over an hour for roadside assistance to come. But it was kind of cool though because I got to talk to her when she was sober. I then gave her the syle necklace routine in her driveway, and she has already started texting me.

She'll always be that girl from the club, but because we were stuck in the car for so long we kinda got to know each other and realized there was a lot of chemistry. Hmm...

So instead of just having one night of sex we may have countless nights of sex. She did give me a handjob in the club too and I fingered her nicely.


"To give to girls as gifts after a number-close. Ask, "You're not a thief, are you?" Then slowly remove your necklace or thumb ring, put it on her, kiss her, and say, "This is still mine. It's something to remember me by. I want it back next time I see you." After she leaves, replace your jewerly with a spare from the bag."

Neil Strauss; The Game, Page 81
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Solomon

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^^This is what I'm talking about man, I'm trying to get to that level (not the flat tire lol)

Good **** Kev

Solo
 

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Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
 

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#41 said:
Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
Exactly, I can change a flat tire within 5mins. And propbably impressing her more in the process. Then I would've taken her home and got the ONS. The OP isn't even likely to see this girl again. Why didn't she hook up that night?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I would of changed the tire. Did not have the proper tools. I just bought this car so I haven't prepared it yet.

She has been texting me all day. The incident brought us closer. Why so negative?

And yes that happened in the club in front of people.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I'd be careful of any woman who would do that in a club. Not exactly the classiest thing to do.
Love at first sight...

No, I'm kidding. I know. She'll always be "the girl from the club."
 

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damn she is cute...and really drunk...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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