"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was about to have a ONS and then I got a flat tire...

guywhoneedshelp

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She was HB9. We had to wait for over an hour for roadside assistance to come. But it was kind of cool though because I got to talk to her when she was sober. I then gave her the syle necklace routine in her driveway, and she has already started texting me.

She'll always be that girl from the club, but because we were stuck in the car for so long we kinda got to know each other and realized there was a lot of chemistry. Hmm...

So instead of just having one night of sex we may have countless nights of sex. She did give me a handjob in the club too and I fingered her nicely.


"To give to girls as gifts after a number-close. Ask, "You're not a thief, are you?" Then slowly remove your necklace or thumb ring, put it on her, kiss her, and say, "This is still mine. It's something to remember me by. I want it back next time I see you." After she leaves, replace your jewerly with a spare from the bag."

Neil Strauss; The Game, Page 81
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^^This is what I'm talking about man, I'm trying to get to that level (not the flat tire lol)

Good **** Kev

Solo
 

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Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
 

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#41 said:
Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
Exactly, I can change a flat tire within 5mins. And propbably impressing her more in the process. Then I would've taken her home and got the ONS. The OP isn't even likely to see this girl again. Why didn't she hook up that night?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would of changed the tire. Did not have the proper tools. I just bought this car so I haven't prepared it yet.

She has been texting me all day. The incident brought us closer. Why so negative?

And yes that happened in the club in front of people.
 

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I'd be careful of any woman who would do that in a club. Not exactly the classiest thing to do.
Love at first sight...

No, I'm kidding. I know. She'll always be "the girl from the club."
 

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damn she is cute...and really drunk...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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