"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was about to have a ONS and then I got a flat tire...

guywhoneedshelp

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She was HB9. We had to wait for over an hour for roadside assistance to come. But it was kind of cool though because I got to talk to her when she was sober. I then gave her the syle necklace routine in her driveway, and she has already started texting me.

She'll always be that girl from the club, but because we were stuck in the car for so long we kinda got to know each other and realized there was a lot of chemistry. Hmm...

So instead of just having one night of sex we may have countless nights of sex. She did give me a handjob in the club too and I fingered her nicely.


"To give to girls as gifts after a number-close. Ask, "You're not a thief, are you?" Then slowly remove your necklace or thumb ring, put it on her, kiss her, and say, "This is still mine. It's something to remember me by. I want it back next time I see you." After she leaves, replace your jewerly with a spare from the bag."

Neil Strauss; The Game, Page 81
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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^^This is what I'm talking about man, I'm trying to get to that level (not the flat tire lol)

Good **** Kev

Solo
 

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Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
 

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#41 said:
Of course a real man would change his own tire. ;)
Exactly, I can change a flat tire within 5mins. And propbably impressing her more in the process. Then I would've taken her home and got the ONS. The OP isn't even likely to see this girl again. Why didn't she hook up that night?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would of changed the tire. Did not have the proper tools. I just bought this car so I haven't prepared it yet.

She has been texting me all day. The incident brought us closer. Why so negative?

And yes that happened in the club in front of people.
 

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I'd be careful of any woman who would do that in a club. Not exactly the classiest thing to do.
Love at first sight...

No, I'm kidding. I know. She'll always be "the girl from the club."
 

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damn she is cute...and really drunk...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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