"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I want to straight out tell this girl how I feel

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tpntch

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I have been talking to her since today, i walked her up because she told me to meet me at her locker.


We met up she was extremely shy, when i mentioned my feelings she said she wanted to get to know me, but she mentioned her brother was strict? I introduced her to my friends and she seemed very shy, told me to come this way, eventually she said she will see me later, and we just said bye.
(at school)


I just want to call her today and just tell her to stop beating around the bushes ask her if she really wants to get to know me or not



Any suggestions or tips, did I do anything wrong


Only thing preventing me from calling her is the fact that I do not want to sound to pushy? How does one act around shy girls if you are not
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tpntch

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Originally posted by moldingcheese
Dude, ask her out... nice and simple.
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You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
 
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DogFashionDisco

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Originally posted by tpntch
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
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Last I heard, when you take someone out you get to know them.
 
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Originally posted by tpntch
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
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how else do you get to know someone...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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johnmich

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Iam english and things work very differently over here. the way you all talk also is tricky for me. Especially people who dont use punctuation n jus write one giant big sentence
 
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John im english, and i can safely say the only way your gonna get to know her better, is by asking her out (not as a gf if your thinking that)

just say "so wanna hang out sometime?"

or something like that

easy peasy lemon squeezy!
 
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The way I was taught was never be the first one to admit your feelings towards the other person. Let your actions speak louder than words.
 
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