"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I want to straight out tell this girl how I feel

tpntch

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I have been talking to her since today, i walked her up because she told me to meet me at her locker.


We met up she was extremely shy, when i mentioned my feelings she said she wanted to get to know me, but she mentioned her brother was strict? I introduced her to my friends and she seemed very shy, told me to come this way, eventually she said she will see me later, and we just said bye.
(at school)


I just want to call her today and just tell her to stop beating around the bushes ask her if she really wants to get to know me or not



Any suggestions or tips, did I do anything wrong


Only thing preventing me from calling her is the fact that I do not want to sound to pushy? How does one act around shy girls if you are not
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tpntch

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Originally posted by moldingcheese
Dude, ask her out... nice and simple.
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
 

DogFashionDisco

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Originally posted by tpntch
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
Last I heard, when you take someone out you get to know them.
 

Zod

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Originally posted by tpntch
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
how else do you get to know someone...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

johnmich

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Iam english and things work very differently over here. the way you all talk also is tricky for me. Especially people who dont use punctuation n jus write one giant big sentence
 

Jizz

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John im english, and i can safely say the only way your gonna get to know her better, is by asking her out (not as a gf if your thinking that)

just say "so wanna hang out sometime?"

or something like that

easy peasy lemon squeezy!
 

Deadly_Assassin

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The way I was taught was never be the first one to admit your feelings towards the other person. Let your actions speak louder than words.
 
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