"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want to straight out tell this girl how I feel

tpntch

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I have been talking to her since today, i walked her up because she told me to meet me at her locker.


We met up she was extremely shy, when i mentioned my feelings she said she wanted to get to know me, but she mentioned her brother was strict? I introduced her to my friends and she seemed very shy, told me to come this way, eventually she said she will see me later, and we just said bye.
(at school)


I just want to call her today and just tell her to stop beating around the bushes ask her if she really wants to get to know me or not



Any suggestions or tips, did I do anything wrong


Only thing preventing me from calling her is the fact that I do not want to sound to pushy? How does one act around shy girls if you are not
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tpntch

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Originally posted by moldingcheese
Dude, ask her out... nice and simple.
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
 

DogFashionDisco

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Originally posted by tpntch
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
Last I heard, when you take someone out you get to know them.
 

Zod

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Originally posted by tpntch
You dont think I should get to know her a little first?
how else do you get to know someone...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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johnmich

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Iam english and things work very differently over here. the way you all talk also is tricky for me. Especially people who dont use punctuation n jus write one giant big sentence
 

Jizz

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John im english, and i can safely say the only way your gonna get to know her better, is by asking her out (not as a gf if your thinking that)

just say "so wanna hang out sometime?"

or something like that

easy peasy lemon squeezy!
 

Deadly_Assassin

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The way I was taught was never be the first one to admit your feelings towards the other person. Let your actions speak louder than words.
 
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