"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I want to smell good what are some good colognes

Demon

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I'd really recommend Obsession for Men by Calvin Klein.

I usually get hugs by lots of different girls every week. Many of them constantly say and OBSESS(ion) over how great I smell.

Let me tell you that I get at least one of those girls in the sack every week.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Take No Dirt

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Just a small tip to all you DJs out there. If you apply expensive cologne to yourself in the morning before going out to work, school and what have you, you'll need to reapply it later on during the day. Do I do and carry a tiny bottle of cologne in your pocket as a "pick me up". You'll be glad you did.
 

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I just reapply it during my Open Period at school...Right in the middle of the day


Dont need a whole lot or anything (not that you need a lot anyway) but just a lil bit helps out


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- Hey, I dunno what my name means either :D

"Always remember those you love. Even in death, no one is ever truely gone as long as they are remembered."
 

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Tiffany for Men, Sport Cologne. More of a light, floral scent, but girls just go nuts over it. Expensive, but worth every penny.
 

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some of my favorites are Pleasures & Romance, by Ralph Lauren and Eternity & Contradiction, by Calvin Klein. All of my female friends and co-workers compliment me on these fragances.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well i got that aqua de armani thing smells goot
 

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Aqua de Gio by Armani
Hererra for Men by Caroline Hererra
Curve by Claiborne

I want to try Longitude/Latitude as per Syncmaster's earlier post awhile ago. I haven't bought it yet cause I own about 10 different colognes since highschool and I want to finish them off.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd get Latitude & Longitude when you can. It's worth every penny, and when used at the right times (I.E. on a date, dance, something where you're gonna be NEAR chicks) it's the nail in the coffin for them. The TKO punch, etc.

I just went through my room (bout that time of the year) and found a bunch of my old bottles I used to use. CK1, Michael Jordan, Stetson Spice. What was I thinking?? Glad I switched over to L&L, Hugo, and whatnot.

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"Always remember those you love. Even in death, no one is ever truely gone as long as they are remembered."
 

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Drakkar Cologne

Well, i bought a bottle of Drakkar and had some high hopes of the scent. I tried it out today and i dont think it smells like what it should. could someone somehow describe HOW it should smell?

I also bought it off ebay, and im pretty sure this is not a fake.

Does the age of the cologne matter?

payce,
wu
 

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Colonge smells different on everyone, due to your bodies chemistry. Ya goota keep that in mind, some colonges smell great until its on your body, and my not mix well with your natural scent. When i was younger I would go into department stores and ask for sample of everything, anything and as much as they wanted to give me for free. Thats the cheapest way to find out what works and doesnt.
 

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Yeah I was going to buy Drakkar b/c I heard it was good from somewhere's but, when I sampled it I thought it smelled bleh. I too decided to go with Acqua di Gio. Good scent man!
 

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I still have an almost full bottle of Drakker that I bought 10 years ago.

I just don't like the way it smells.

Personally, I prefer:

Obsession for Men
Joop!
Jacomo de Jacomo
Acqua di Gio
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's hard to believe this cologne (Drakkar), has been around for 20 years now.
 

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well i guess i gotta stick it out and use this til its dun, :(
and i think i tricked myself into thinking it smells good too :D
thanks yall,

payce,
wu
 

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im also mad lazy and dont wanna go out to sample, any of yall know a cologne that would match the description of an athletic, strong and "sexy" guy? should be a manly smell too
 

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I like both...

When I'm wearing Drakkar or Acqua di Gio, I've gotten compliments from women.
Suprisingly, I've been complimented on my $8.00 Adidas
Cool Spice Sport aftershave, too.
 

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An excellent one is Desire, by Dunhill. It comes in a red glass bottle shaped like a rectangular alcohol flask. It's got a masculine edge, but is also soft and seductive. It's killer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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