...so you're in a relationship but you went back to college and starts seeing hot chicks all over the place. One hot babe even walks up to you and talks to you about class and all that, seeing clearly how interested she is to you. Kind of stupid to ask but should I bang chicks behind my girlfriend's back? She tells me it's okay just don't let her know but I got a big mouth and I can't keep sh*t away from her. I know that's the craziest you've ever heard but I guess she knows I'm young at the age of 20 and I can't help it. Why the hell do I fall in love too easily? I don't know how a guy does it..that hitting and quitting thing. ugh! For me I want to hit and hit and hit!~
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I want to sleep around...what does a real DJ do?!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
no..she's home most the time with me on the phone and hangs out with me pretty often. She's really the good girl type. I even had to tell her I can only talk to her on weekends because I'm starting to get sick working 10 at night until 6 in the morning then going straight to school. Of course she understands.pingpongz said:
I don't know, it's more like her dad was a player and slept with many women and her mom put up with it and I guess she's willing to do the same. I guess you can say she fell hard for me and yes I doubt she'll leave me if I sleep around as long as in the end I'm hers. I know it's crazy because a lot of men out there don't think a girl like my girlfriend exist. I don't know maybe it's an asian thing or filipina to be exact. She knows I won't think twice if she cheats on me and she doesn't but it's just hard to ruin a really good relationship but I can't keep my eyes off of there girls especially those on the 18 to 22 range. UGH!
I don't know maybe my girl is too good that the thought of her ever going out with another guy ever is not there and it's not much as exciting where you're always on your toe because there's too many competition?
If you ask her out she'll tell you she has a boyfriend right away. I don't want her to sleep around but I want to keep it balance because if she was a guy she would be that total AFC you all know and we all know how girls hate em!~
WC2
Master Don Juan
No offense, but I have to agree with pingpongz here..vagrant said:
Listen, I've been through plenty of relationships, some great, some awful. If your girlfriend "doesn't care" about you banging other women, she is either very odd in her social standing, or is not that into you. Either way, if something good enough came about, she's probably going to do something.
If a woman isn't jealous of you doing other things with other women, she is not into you. She tells you not to tell her, because she doesn't want to have to put up with it emotionally when it happens. When I say emotionally, i don't mean she is emotional over you, but emotional that theres another girl out there better than her. She doesn't want that disapproval from you.
Long story short man, please take my advice and start looking to exit this relationship. I just got out of a year relationship with a woman who left me after she had a fling with some guy on vacation. I too thought she was in love with me to no end, but once something exciting comes around, nothing matters. Don't let her break your heart and leave you with the emotional baggage. Get out early and have fun being 20 and in college!
good luck
I guess I'll never get to convince you all that my girl is very into me, gets jealous, cries for me, loves me and all that let me just ask those who's been in and out of a relationship. Do you all still stay contact with your exes at least those you've bang already?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
When, I was a AFC I've been cheated on in relationships. Now, I know how to keep the interest going and can tell if my girlfriend is up to something or not.
What the other two said is just a little reality check. Some girls will say how much they love you and act like it but, the next thing you know you find out she fvcked some other guy. I don't know how much your GF loves you so, that is your job to decide if her love and loyalty is true.
As for you wanting to cheat on your girlfriend who "loves" you. It is not that hard. You take the girl you wanna bang to your college dorm or whatever. Get the pvssy and keep it all to yourself.
What the other two said is just a little reality check. Some girls will say how much they love you and act like it but, the next thing you know you find out she fvcked some other guy. I don't know how much your GF loves you so, that is your job to decide if her love and loyalty is true.
As for you wanting to cheat on your girlfriend who "loves" you. It is not that hard. You take the girl you wanna bang to your college dorm or whatever. Get the pvssy and keep it all to yourself.
Monkey
Master Don Juan
A man has respect for himself and others - so end it with your gf then you can 'screw around' till your **** drops off...
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
college is 4 years like no other. Do what I did and break up with your girl while you still have some time in college left, because the real world is a whole different ball game. Never will there be that many young people looking to party and have fun in the same area as you in a permanent living situation, unless you live in a college town the rest of your life. You just said you wanted to sleep around, if you want to do that more than being in a relationship, well the choice is already made.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
and yes I still keep in contact with and hook up with my ex that I broke up with at least once a year when I'm home.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If you ask her out she'll tell you she has a boyfriend right away.
Like that would stop any of us here? Anyone will cheat if their needs are not met.
Like that would stop any of us here? Anyone will cheat if their needs are not met.
amoka
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I have a bad news for you. You're are not the only fish your girl is fishing from the sea. I know of friend who has DADt(Don't Ask Don't tell) "relationship" and his girlfriend is a friend of my friend. And these two have no secret at all. Whatever the girl does, my friend knows and whatever my friend does she knows. She tells my friend how she screws her ex-boyfriend up behind his back. All this time, he is thinking.... "she won't cheat on me". "she is a good girl". Tell you what, DADt relationship is a free passport to player's world.vagrant said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WC2
Master Don Juan
And you're saying you know your girl would never cheat on you?vagrant said:
You should probably learn a little more about women before you get hurt real bad. Yes, there are A LOT of girls out there who are just looking to ****. They won't say it, but they are.
Read the dj bible
this is what bothers me the most about your post... running your mouth mindlessly is a bad thing in general, not only with girls. it can get you in a lot of trouble so start working on that now, or you ll regret it latervagrant said: