vagrant said:
...so you're in a relationship but you went back to college and starts seeing hot chicks all over the place. One hot babe even walks up to you and talks to you about class and all that, seeing clearly how interested she is to you. Kind of stupid to ask but should I bang chicks behind my girlfriend's back? She tells me it's okay just don't let her know but I got a big mouth and I can't keep sh*t away from her. I know that's the craziest you've ever heard but I guess she knows I'm young at the age of 20 and I can't help it. Why the hell do I fall in love too easily? I don't know how a guy does it..that hitting and quitting thing. ugh! For me I want to hit and hit and hit!~
No offense, but I have to agree with pingpongz here..
Listen, I've been through plenty of relationships, some great, some awful. If your girlfriend "doesn't care" about you banging other women, she is either very odd in her social standing, or is not that into you. Either way, if something good enough came about, she's probably going to do something.
If a woman isn't jealous of you doing other things with other women, she is not into you. She tells you not to tell her, because she doesn't want to have to put up with it emotionally when it happens. When I say emotionally, i don't mean she is emotional over you, but emotional that theres another girl out there better than her. She doesn't want that disapproval from you.
Long story short man, please take my advice and start looking to exit this relationship. I just got out of a year relationship with a woman who left me after she had a fling with some guy on vacation. I too thought she was in love with me to no end, but once something exciting comes around, nothing matters. Don't let her break your heart and leave you with the emotional baggage. Get out early and have fun being 20 and in college!
good luck