"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want to improve my life.

Brighty

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Having recently gotten out of a relationship and being back in the game, I've made a few realizations:

1. Women have been the focus of my life ever since I registered on this site. I judge myself on what kind of women I can get, I'm always thinking about them, going out of my way to attract them, and while it works, I have realized that I do not want to define myself and who I am by them.

2. I am 19 years old and I view myself as someone who is creative (I strive to be an entrepreneur or a film maker) and I grow bored life. My days consist of going to class, doing homework, goofing off on facebook, hanging out with friends and playing videogames. On the weekends I go out to various parties, get drunk, and hook up with random girls. In other words, average in every sense of the word.

Lately there has been this nagging feeling that I should be striving for something greater. I need more substance in my life, I want to go out and do more exciting things, to live my life to its fullest. However, being in college and having a rather tight budget makes it a little more difficult. Do you guys have any advice or suggestions that may have worked for you to help lead that more "go get-em" or "alpha male" lifestyle? Any particular things or clubs I should be out on the lookout for, anything that you guys would recommend?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brighty

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Er... if I said I wanted to improve my life to help me attract girls would this get more attention? :confused:
 

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probably not, but you DID post this at 5am ;)

my suggestion: volunteer for something. not only will it give you a feeling of accomplishment, but you ill be helping someone, and it's pretty cheap to volunteer ;)
 

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Any suggestions on what to volunteer for? Or any general principles or activities that will make my life more engaging and fun?
 

lorekeeper

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I'm not one to give advice for it. I'm still on my journey ;)

I do know that I decided to donate blood a couple of days ago and felt good after doing so, even if it was a little bit It gave me a good mood boost. I was joking around with the lady volunteers, yes, all of them were over 65 years old :p but it's things like this that will eventually allow me to get over my social anxiety problem.

Is there anything in your area that lists volunteer positions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I love making films too, dude. Put aside the video games and make a small film. Doesn't have to be long. Grab a couple of friends and just shoot and edit your own film. Doing this, you will invest your time into something rather than girls and your hard work will pay off.
 
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