I wanna get my good friend into pickup. Thing is, hes an AFC, as every other guy at my school. Hes not bad looking, hes got a good body too. He keeps saying "Oh, id hit that ****" but he never does anything about it. If i introduce this stuff to him out of the blue he will be sooo confused. Hes never heard of anything thats being talking about on this forum, kino and all that attraction stuff, im afraid if he comes across this stuff he will thinks its total BS becuase it seems too good to be true. How can i bring this on him?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
i want to get my friend in the game
- Thread starter HandyAndy
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You are 15. You "game" dem chicks on your 10-speed? Look, there isn't a girl on this planet who wants a boy your age. Somebody has to tell you that. At your age I was playing video games and collecting sports cards. Cool stuff.
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Do you ever have a positive thing to say about anything? It appears you're deathly afraid to admit who you are more than the want to get away from your self hatred. So the brother is 15, so fvcking what? He, moreso than your ass, is coming here in the attempt to MENtor a brother who looks up to him. That is commendable and a knightly thing to do. All you speak is bile.meitenesrigas said:
How about you take your garbage over to the Oprah or Dr, Phil message boards and get in line with the rest of the herd. No one here is interested in your bullsh!t, lame responses.
Now, onto you youngbrother HandyAndy, with this friend of yours the best frame to come at him will be by example. He's the Doubting Thomas and will need to put his finger in your hole (so to speak) in order to believe what you're trying to teach him. Show him that you have the confidence and maturation to have a thriving conversation with a girl without immature chick-speak and nonsense. Some guys respect your authority only after they've seen it demonstrated in front of their eyes.
Good for you Sir.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You have to stay away from being overt. You can't throw a website in front of him and expect him to get it.
Take him out as your wingman and show him what you've learned.
Open sets and have a natural conversation and make the girls laugh.
Take him out as your wingman and show him what you've learned.
Open sets and have a natural conversation and make the girls laugh.
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I have plenty of positive responses. Just read my posts. A grown man shouldn't be giving a kid advice on how to have sex. That is disgusting. If you were living where I am now you would be one of the guys banging 11 year olds. Thank God you are stuck where you are. The world is a better place for it.KarmaSutra said:
The rest of the herd? NO, that is you. You have fallen for the American feminist crap.