I wanna get my good friend into pickup. Thing is, hes an AFC, as every other guy at my school. Hes not bad looking, hes got a good body too. He keeps saying "Oh, id hit that ****" but he never does anything about it. If i introduce this stuff to him out of the blue he will be sooo confused. Hes never heard of anything thats being talking about on this forum, kino and all that attraction stuff, im afraid if he comes across this stuff he will thinks its total BS becuase it seems too good to be true. How can i bring this on him?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i want to get my friend in the game
- Thread starter HandyAndy
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
meitenesrigas
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You are 15. You "game" dem chicks on your 10-speed? Look, there isn't a girl on this planet who wants a boy your age. Somebody has to tell you that. At your age I was playing video games and collecting sports cards. Cool stuff.
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Do you ever have a positive thing to say about anything? It appears you're deathly afraid to admit who you are more than the want to get away from your self hatred. So the brother is 15, so fvcking what? He, moreso than your ass, is coming here in the attempt to MENtor a brother who looks up to him. That is commendable and a knightly thing to do. All you speak is bile.meitenesrigas said:
How about you take your garbage over to the Oprah or Dr, Phil message boards and get in line with the rest of the herd. No one here is interested in your bullsh!t, lame responses.
Now, onto you youngbrother HandyAndy, with this friend of yours the best frame to come at him will be by example. He's the Doubting Thomas and will need to put his finger in your hole (so to speak) in order to believe what you're trying to teach him. Show him that you have the confidence and maturation to have a thriving conversation with a girl without immature chick-speak and nonsense. Some guys respect your authority only after they've seen it demonstrated in front of their eyes.
Good for you Sir.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You have to stay away from being overt. You can't throw a website in front of him and expect him to get it.
Take him out as your wingman and show him what you've learned.
Open sets and have a natural conversation and make the girls laugh.
Take him out as your wingman and show him what you've learned.
Open sets and have a natural conversation and make the girls laugh.
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I have plenty of positive responses. Just read my posts. A grown man shouldn't be giving a kid advice on how to have sex. That is disgusting. If you were living where I am now you would be one of the guys banging 11 year olds. Thank God you are stuck where you are. The world is a better place for it.KarmaSutra said:
The rest of the herd? NO, that is you. You have fallen for the American feminist crap.