I wanna get my good friend into pickup. Thing is, hes an AFC, as every other guy at my school. Hes not bad looking, hes got a good body too. He keeps saying "Oh, id hit that ****" but he never does anything about it. If i introduce this stuff to him out of the blue he will be sooo confused. Hes never heard of anything thats being talking about on this forum, kino and all that attraction stuff, im afraid if he comes across this stuff he will thinks its total BS becuase it seems too good to be true. How can i bring this on him?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i want to get my friend in the game
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
meitenesrigas
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You are 15. You "game" dem chicks on your 10-speed? Look, there isn't a girl on this planet who wants a boy your age. Somebody has to tell you that. At your age I was playing video games and collecting sports cards. Cool stuff.
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Do you ever have a positive thing to say about anything? It appears you're deathly afraid to admit who you are more than the want to get away from your self hatred. So the brother is 15, so fvcking what? He, moreso than your ass, is coming here in the attempt to MENtor a brother who looks up to him. That is commendable and a knightly thing to do. All you speak is bile.meitenesrigas said:
How about you take your garbage over to the Oprah or Dr, Phil message boards and get in line with the rest of the herd. No one here is interested in your bullsh!t, lame responses.
Now, onto you youngbrother HandyAndy, with this friend of yours the best frame to come at him will be by example. He's the Doubting Thomas and will need to put his finger in your hole (so to speak) in order to believe what you're trying to teach him. Show him that you have the confidence and maturation to have a thriving conversation with a girl without immature chick-speak and nonsense. Some guys respect your authority only after they've seen it demonstrated in front of their eyes.
Good for you Sir.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You have to stay away from being overt. You can't throw a website in front of him and expect him to get it.
Take him out as your wingman and show him what you've learned.
Open sets and have a natural conversation and make the girls laugh.
Take him out as your wingman and show him what you've learned.
Open sets and have a natural conversation and make the girls laugh.
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I have plenty of positive responses. Just read my posts. A grown man shouldn't be giving a kid advice on how to have sex. That is disgusting. If you were living where I am now you would be one of the guys banging 11 year olds. Thank God you are stuck where you are. The world is a better place for it.KarmaSutra said:
The rest of the herd? NO, that is you. You have fallen for the American feminist crap.