“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I want to get into a positive mood before my semester starts, any advice?

Demystify

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I've been extremely negative lately and I don't want to carry this negativity into the semester that starts next week. So what are some good ways to put myself into a positive mindset?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

DamHE

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hey bud. honestly, just force yourself. this is a new semester and whatever happened before like grades or a rejection are in the past. remember we won't have a time machine any time soon so don't hope for history to change. all you can do now is stop it from continuing to affect the future.
 

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You need to get rid of those negative thoughts, that's whats causing your negativity. They can be a result of something someone has said to you, a negative idea that you found and you can't stop thinking about it, or maybe its frustration for whatever reason and you are manifesting it.

You need to clear your mind.

Sit down in a relatively comfortable and distraction-free place. Listen to your thoughts, pay attention to how you feel. How bad is it?

Now you need to turn it off. Meditation works.

Close your eyes, and focus on the sound of your heartbeat, breathing... anything. Your mind usually needs something to do, that's why you focus on something external. By doing this you are calming yourself, and training yourself to control your thoughts.

This is something you do regularly. 10-15min a day is good. If its really bad, do it more often.


Now you need to think positive. Look at the bright side of the situation whenever you can, and when its appropriate.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
You need to get rid of those negative thoughts, that's whats causing your negativity. They can be a result of something someone has said to you, a negative idea that you found and you can't stop thinking about it, or maybe its frustration for whatever reason and you are manifesting it.

You need to clear your mind.

Sit down in a relatively comfortable and distraction-free place. Listen to your thoughts, pay attention to how you feel. How bad is it?

Now you need to turn it off. Meditation works.

Close your eyes, and focus on the sound of your heartbeat, breathing... anything. Your mind usually needs something to do, that's why you focus on something external. By doing this you are calming yourself, and training yourself to control your thoughts.

This is something you do regularly. 10-15min a day is good. If its really bad, do it more often.


Now you need to think positive. Look at the bright side of the situation whenever you can, and when its appropriate.
dont listen to this crap just man up
 

Irs88

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Think about whats next. You can't change the past
 

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Plan on running a marathon or a triathlon and start training, this works like magic.
 

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Listen to the Rocky theme every day.
 
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