Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
dont listen to this crap just man upAlle_Gory said:You need to get rid of those negative thoughts, that's whats causing your negativity. They can be a result of something someone has said to you, a negative idea that you found and you can't stop thinking about it, or maybe its frustration for whatever reason and you are manifesting it.
You need to clear your mind.
Sit down in a relatively comfortable and distraction-free place. Listen to your thoughts, pay attention to how you feel. How bad is it?
Now you need to turn it off. Meditation works.
Close your eyes, and focus on the sound of your heartbeat, breathing... anything. Your mind usually needs something to do, that's why you focus on something external. By doing this you are calming yourself, and training yourself to control your thoughts.
This is something you do regularly. 10-15min a day is good. If its really bad, do it more often.
Now you need to think positive. Look at the bright side of the situation whenever you can, and when its appropriate.
That doesn't even mean anything.DamHE said:dont listen to this crap just man up
DamHE said:dont listen to this crap just man up