"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I WANT TO FIND A PARTY!!(sorry for caps...)

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It is true though, I am so angry I can;t find a party when I ask like 15+ people in a row!

I tell them I have the booze, the grls, and any guys they pick. They don' buy it.

How the hell do I find good parties? I can;t make my own, since I don;t have a place to ever party that is safe, so I have to request my own.

How do you guys find parties, other than through social connections, and through knowing where an empty house is?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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partying in die VELD

HI BUDDY
come to SOUF AFRIKA
i am giving a fancy dress party tonite
place BLOEMFONTAIN
venue = die groene huis pelikaanstraat 21
starts at 20 h don t be late
jansen van der westhuizen
YOU can dress up as DRACULA or you don t have to bother!! you just come as you are ! ( this is humor)
 
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Do you really need a party that bad to have fun?
 
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Originally posted by blinkwatt
Do you really need a party that bad to have fun?
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I thin my truth's are too outrageous for you guys, is that not true, I still get your type of questions!!!

I want a party, because as I said, I have nowhere else to bring the girls. I tell the guys can bring em 10 girls, or get 10 guys to grease em selves up while they are there for him, I don't disciminate against something I don't want.

I was saying "I have 10 girls who want to party" EVRY NIGHT "I want to find a party". "I have nowhere to bring them" "How do I find a good, and safe, party to bring them to?"

I don't plan parties though, I hate other people bailing on my own plans. If they are spontaneous parties, I can blame it on the police officers who bag the place.
 
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Why do you not just go to a club? Unless you are under 21(sometimes 18 depending on the club) there is no excuss for that. Or you can rent out a hotel room and invite everyone you know,but sounds like you might not like that. Dont take offense to this but do you mind me asking why you have to take them places? Should they not be helping in planing whatever you guys/gals are doing?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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