"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I WANT TO FIND A PARTY!!(sorry for caps...)

ethnomethodologist

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It is true though, I am so angry I can;t find a party when I ask like 15+ people in a row!

I tell them I have the booze, the grls, and any guys they pick. They don' buy it.

How the hell do I find good parties? I can;t make my own, since I don;t have a place to ever party that is safe, so I have to request my own.

How do you guys find parties, other than through social connections, and through knowing where an empty house is?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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partying in die VELD

HI BUDDY
come to SOUF AFRIKA
i am giving a fancy dress party tonite
place BLOEMFONTAIN
venue = die groene huis pelikaanstraat 21
starts at 20 h don t be late
jansen van der westhuizen
YOU can dress up as DRACULA or you don t have to bother!! you just come as you are ! ( this is humor)
 

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Do you really need a party that bad to have fun?
 

ethnomethodologist

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Originally posted by blinkwatt
Do you really need a party that bad to have fun?
I thin my truth's are too outrageous for you guys, is that not true, I still get your type of questions!!!

I want a party, because as I said, I have nowhere else to bring the girls. I tell the guys can bring em 10 girls, or get 10 guys to grease em selves up while they are there for him, I don't disciminate against something I don't want.

I was saying "I have 10 girls who want to party" EVRY NIGHT "I want to find a party". "I have nowhere to bring them" "How do I find a good, and safe, party to bring them to?"

I don't plan parties though, I hate other people bailing on my own plans. If they are spontaneous parties, I can blame it on the police officers who bag the place.
 

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Why do you not just go to a club? Unless you are under 21(sometimes 18 depending on the club) there is no excuss for that. Or you can rent out a hotel room and invite everyone you know,but sounds like you might not like that. Dont take offense to this but do you mind me asking why you have to take them places? Should they not be helping in planing whatever you guys/gals are doing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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