"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I WANT TO FIND A PARTY!!(sorry for caps...)

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It is true though, I am so angry I can;t find a party when I ask like 15+ people in a row!

I tell them I have the booze, the grls, and any guys they pick. They don' buy it.

How the hell do I find good parties? I can;t make my own, since I don;t have a place to ever party that is safe, so I have to request my own.

How do you guys find parties, other than through social connections, and through knowing where an empty house is?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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partying in die VELD

HI BUDDY
come to SOUF AFRIKA
i am giving a fancy dress party tonite
place BLOEMFONTAIN
venue = die groene huis pelikaanstraat 21
starts at 20 h don t be late
jansen van der westhuizen
YOU can dress up as DRACULA or you don t have to bother!! you just come as you are ! ( this is humor)
 
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Do you really need a party that bad to have fun?
 
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Originally posted by blinkwatt
Do you really need a party that bad to have fun?
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I thin my truth's are too outrageous for you guys, is that not true, I still get your type of questions!!!

I want a party, because as I said, I have nowhere else to bring the girls. I tell the guys can bring em 10 girls, or get 10 guys to grease em selves up while they are there for him, I don't disciminate against something I don't want.

I was saying "I have 10 girls who want to party" EVRY NIGHT "I want to find a party". "I have nowhere to bring them" "How do I find a good, and safe, party to bring them to?"

I don't plan parties though, I hate other people bailing on my own plans. If they are spontaneous parties, I can blame it on the police officers who bag the place.
 
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Why do you not just go to a club? Unless you are under 21(sometimes 18 depending on the club) there is no excuss for that. Or you can rent out a hotel room and invite everyone you know,but sounds like you might not like that. Dont take offense to this but do you mind me asking why you have to take them places? Should they not be helping in planing whatever you guys/gals are doing?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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