"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want to date my ex's best friend/friend, is it okay? and how can I ask her out?

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Is it okay and can you guys give me tips on how to ask her out. Thanks
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Doesn't seem like a good idea. Can't see how this would work out without causing drama. Girls talk and gossip all the time.
 

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I would but I'd be aware that the probability of drama would be high.
How crazy is your ex?
My ex, would never come break my sh1t for say but if I feared for any of my stuff/house/etc, I might reconsider.
I live in a small town and it'd be hard for me to stay away from her friends.
 

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Just make sure it won't ruin your rep, and be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
 

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No, it's not OK.:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
 

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Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
I just knew a lot of girls who'd be really mad if their friend did that to them, and a lot of their friends wouldn't want to drive a wedge between them to bang some random guy.

Although i did have a thing with a girl whose friend was trying to steal me away from her, but those girls weren't really friends they only acted like it and tolerated each other.

So i suppose it depends on the relationships and personalities of the girls in question
 
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