"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I want to date my ex's best friend/friend, is it okay? and how can I ask her out?

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Is it okay and can you guys give me tips on how to ask her out. Thanks
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Doesn't seem like a good idea. Can't see how this would work out without causing drama. Girls talk and gossip all the time.
 

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I would but I'd be aware that the probability of drama would be high.
How crazy is your ex?
My ex, would never come break my sh1t for say but if I feared for any of my stuff/house/etc, I might reconsider.
I live in a small town and it'd be hard for me to stay away from her friends.
 

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Just make sure it won't ruin your rep, and be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
 

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No, it's not OK.:p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FwoGiZ

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be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
 

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Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
I just knew a lot of girls who'd be really mad if their friend did that to them, and a lot of their friends wouldn't want to drive a wedge between them to bang some random guy.

Although i did have a thing with a girl whose friend was trying to steal me away from her, but those girls weren't really friends they only acted like it and tolerated each other.

So i suppose it depends on the relationships and personalities of the girls in question
 
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