"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want to date my ex's best friend/friend, is it okay? and how can I ask her out?

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Is it okay and can you guys give me tips on how to ask her out. Thanks
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Doesn't seem like a good idea. Can't see how this would work out without causing drama. Girls talk and gossip all the time.
 

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I would but I'd be aware that the probability of drama would be high.
How crazy is your ex?
My ex, would never come break my sh1t for say but if I feared for any of my stuff/house/etc, I might reconsider.
I live in a small town and it'd be hard for me to stay away from her friends.
 

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Just make sure it won't ruin your rep, and be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
 

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No, it's not OK.:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
 

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Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
I just knew a lot of girls who'd be really mad if their friend did that to them, and a lot of their friends wouldn't want to drive a wedge between them to bang some random guy.

Although i did have a thing with a girl whose friend was trying to steal me away from her, but those girls weren't really friends they only acted like it and tolerated each other.

So i suppose it depends on the relationships and personalities of the girls in question
 
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