Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I want to date my ex's best friend/friend, is it okay? and how can I ask her out?

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Is it okay and can you guys give me tips on how to ask her out. Thanks
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doesn't seem like a good idea. Can't see how this would work out without causing drama. Girls talk and gossip all the time.
 

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I would but I'd be aware that the probability of drama would be high.
How crazy is your ex?
My ex, would never come break my sh1t for say but if I feared for any of my stuff/house/etc, I might reconsider.
I live in a small town and it'd be hard for me to stay away from her friends.
 

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Just make sure it won't ruin your rep, and be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
 

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No, it's not OK.:p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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be prepared for a 99% chance the best friend wouldn't ever do that to her gf
Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
 

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Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.

Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
I just knew a lot of girls who'd be really mad if their friend did that to them, and a lot of their friends wouldn't want to drive a wedge between them to bang some random guy.

Although i did have a thing with a girl whose friend was trying to steal me away from her, but those girls weren't really friends they only acted like it and tolerated each other.

So i suppose it depends on the relationships and personalities of the girls in question
 
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